Updated: Jun 11
Finding love can feel like a difficult road sometimes. We're not sure if we should take the fast lane, the slow lane, merge to the divider and just take a snooze. How do I find my perfect partner? Where do I start? Should I go out and look for it today? Should I wait? So many questions to this, and all of them are probably true. However, to get a solid foundation and understanding of what finding true love means, start with the follow 10 quotes about finding love to inspire you.
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10 QUOTES ABOUT FINDING LOVE TO INSPIRE YOU
If we want to be in love, then we need to show our love. Love isn't a fast food shop where as you go pick it up with little to no effort and then rest on your laurels. To be in love you have to be a lover. You have to be a love giver. You have to encapsulate love.
Do not settle for anyone for love. We are so desperate to fall in love sometimes that we blind ourselves. That's why the phrase love is blind is so popular. Most of the time we focus on the feelings and emotions behind what we're feeling. We don't question the person we're actually with.
That's the quickest way to ruin your life and live with regret. This is why so many people are divorced in the early 20's. They take the fairytale over the realness of reality.
It's true that the best things come to those who wait. There is no point of rushing your heart when it's not ready. When you love yourself, other people will naturally love you back.
Rushing love can be the best way to completely ruin your life. If there is ever any doubt, then you need to pay attention to that. Attract someone is loves like you and values the same things you do. Love is contagious, and you will attract the perfect person in time.
There is a difference between being single and just waiting for the right person. This is a much better solution than settling or bouncing from relationship to relationship out of boredom.
Society has a way of making us feel incomplete without being in a relationship, as if makes you more successful or complete. You should want to have people in your life who bring more fulfilment to your life, but shouldn't be used to fill in the missing pieces. You're already whole and complete. You should use extreme caution before giving yourself away completely to another person.
Think about this in terms of the law of attraction. We attract what we put out. When we love on others, put out love and positive vibrations, those same vibrations are picked up around you. You want someone on the same wavelength who encompasses love and positive vibrations like you do. You become like a love beacon. I found love this way, and I am proof that it has worked.
If we want to take credit for all the good that comes into our lives, then we have to take credit for all the bad that happens. No matter what happens for us or to us we always have choice.
The freedom of choice is one of the greatest gifts we have. We have the power to chose our life. We have the power to choose our partner. Never be afraid to demand the best out of someone. You deserved to be loved and cherished for the person that you are.
Finding the right partner is often about sharing similar values. Having standards for ourselves is just as important as having standards for other people. If we hold ourselves accountable, but not our partner, we're likely to become heartbroken and feel mislead.
For those of us who are married and found love, you realize that in hindsight that what actually brought you together was not "true love". That is a whole other issue. What brought you together and sustains your friendship is shared values and shared standards.
It's easy to tell when you are merely an option to someone when you make them a priority. Do they treat you the same way you treat them? Do they show their love in sweet ways the same ways you do? Do they value you and spend time with you? Do they make it feel like the world revolves around you? If they don't, they need to hit the road!
We must be happy ourselves if we want to be in a happy relationship. Nobody holds the key to your happiness. You do. This is where many men and women go wrong. They put all their value and happiness in other people instead of valuing themselves.
If you want to attract a man. If you want to attract a women, then display confidence and be happy. Then they will come flocking to you! Confidence is sexy. Knowing who you are and what you value is sexy. When you practice good self-love you can be there emotionally, physically, and mentally for your partner. Never let someone else define your happiness, but simply add to it.
You should treat yourself like a treasure. You are someone who should be valued and taken seriously. If we don't have confidence in who we are, we can get taken advantage of or manipulated. A healthy love for yourself is a great step towards attracting a partner and having a loving happy relationship.
About the Author
Matt Jones is a writer and entrepreneur with multiple businesses who loves inspiring others to reach their full potential. He is also a musician, educator, and world traveler whom has been to over 40 different countries on all 7 continents.
His personal mission is to create and inspire. He is from Los Angeles, but is now based in greater London where he lives with his wife and son.